29 Apr You’re Being Held Hostage
Mental Captivity
Captivity does not always feel like chains. It sometimes feels like common sense.
It is one thing to choose the chains you wear and rightly see them for what they are. It is quite another to view those same chains as something they are not. That is the picture presented before us here. A person can be held captive by ideas they have never questioned, assumptions they have never examined, and lies they have lived with for so long that they now feel normal. This is what makes mental captivity so dangerous. It does not always announce itself as rebellion against God. It often sounds reasonable, practical, or even wise.
Paul warned the Colossians, “See to it that no one takes you captive by philosophy and empty deceit, according to human tradition, according to the elemental spirits of the world, and not according to Christ” (Colossians 2:8). That warning assumes something important. Ideas can capture people. False ways of thinking can take hold of the mind. Believers can be influenced by systems of thought that appear harmless but are actually pulling them away from Christ.
This is one of the deepest dangers of drift.
When a lie first enters the mind, it may feel foreign. But when it is repeated, defended, and lived with long enough, it can begin to feel like truth.
Captivity Can Feel Normal
One reason people remain captive to false thinking is because captivity can become familiar. A person may not recognize bondage when it has shaped the way they see everything.
Someone raised in fear may think suspicion is wisdom. Someone shaped by pride may think correction is an attack. Someone trained by culture may think biblical authority is oppressive. Someone ruled by emotion may think every feeling deserves obedience. Someone formed by self protection may think surrender is unsafe.
In each case, the person may not feel trapped. They may feel justified.
That is why lies are so powerful. They do not merely give wrong answers. They create entirely wrong categories and teach us what to defend, fear, excuse, and reject. In time, the lie becomes a lens, and the lens begins to interpret everything else.
A person held captive by a false idea might still read the Bible, attend church weekly, and use Christian language in their everyday life. But the moment truth confronts the lie they believe, the lie may feel more believable than the Word of God. This is why captivity is not only about behavior. It is about the mind.
Lies Build Strongholds
In 2 Corinthians 10:4-5 Paul says, “4 For the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh but have divine power to destroy strongholds. 5 We destroy arguments and every lofty opinion raised against the knowledge of God, and take every thought captive to obey Christ,”.
Strongholds begin in the mind before they show up in the life.
A stronghold is not merely a bad habit. It is a fortified city, constructed brick by brick, to prevent truth from invading its walls. Every argument, belief, desire, or assumption that stands against the truth is ultimately a lie, another brick added to resist what God has revealed.
A lie becomes a stronghold when it is no longer questioned. It settles in quietly and takes its place in the living room of your mind like familiar furniture. You grow so familiar with it that you no longer recognize the shaping effect it has on you. It becomes the chair that causes you to recline in your interactions with God when some moments require you to stand at attention. It becomes the carpet that softens or dulls your convictions when reading the Word. It becomes the filter that shapes your interaction with God. It becomes the mirror reflecting how you see yourself. It is ultimately the layout quietly directing the way you live.
This is why behavior modification is not enough. Someone might try to change their behavior without confronting the false beliefs beneath it. However, if the stronghold remains, the behavior will often return. To truly destroy these strongholds, one must first be brave enough to consider the possibility they have been believing lies. Then they must submit every conviction, belief, and opinion to the full scrutiny of the Word, taking each thought captive and making it obedient to the God of the Word, not the god of this world.
Bondage Often Sounds Reasonable
The most dangerous lies are not always the ones that sound obviously wicked. They are the ones that sound almost true.
Remember, the enemy comes masquerading as a messenger of light. We do not willingly walk into bondage with our wrists together and arms outstretched, begging to be put in chains and live behind its bars. We are moved there gradually.
Satan does not come to you and say black is white. He comes to you and says, “Black is dark,” and we say, “Well, of course it is.” “Dark is obscure,” “Yep, that is right.” “Obscure is transparent,” “Yes, yes it is.” “Transparent is light,” “Absolutely it is.” “And light is white.” Then he has lured us slowly into the cell of our bondage, convincing us step by step that black is white. Now we are captives of the very lie we have been slowly convinced of.
A lie may say, “God wants you happy,” while quietly removing holiness from the conversation. A lie may say, “Follow your heart,” while ignoring the corruption of the heart apart from grace. A lie may say, “Love means affirmation,” while separating love from truth. A lie may say, “You know what is best for you,” while placing the self above the wisdom of God.
This kind of bondage sounds reasonable because it borrows the language of wisdom, compassion, and freedom. It does not always tell people to reject God. Sometimes it simply tells them to reinterpret God in a way that protects the lie.
That is how captivity works. It does not merely lock a person in. It convinces them the room is safe.
This is why discernment matters. Test every voice you hear, even your own. Not every thought deserves agreement. Not every emotion deserves authority. Not every cultural idea deserves a place in the Christian mind.
Christ Liberates Through Truth
Jesus said, “If you abide in my word, you are truly my disciples, and you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free” (John 8:31-32).
Freedom does not come by protecting the lie. Freedom comes by abiding in the Word of Christ.
There it is again. Did you catch it? It all comes down to this issue of immersion. Abiding, resting, and dwelling are repeated words in Scripture, calling us to consider what voices we listen to, how much credibility we give them, and how much time we spend hearing them.
No one expects to become an Olympic swimmer without an extraordinary investment of time, or a surgeon without years of rigorous training, or a prima ballerina without countless hours of disciplined practice. Why? Because we understand that people are shaped and formed over time, through pressure, repetition, and sustained devotion. Growth is forged in what could be called the furnace of affliction and the kiln of time.
And yet, as believers, we often treat the Word of God with a striking lack of seriousness. We may give it a brief hearing, perhaps an hour a week, while the rest of our attention is steadily absorbed by the noise of our culture. Consider this: recent data shows that the average person spends approximately 5.5 hours per day on their phone alone (Harmony Healthcare IT, “Phone Screen Time Statistics”). That does not include television, streaming, or other forms of media.
If culture has your ear for 5.5 hours a day, and God has it for one hour a week, can we honestly call that abiding? And if we are not abiding, why are we surprised that we remain bound?
Christ can liberate you from lies, but not if you refuse to abide.
Final Thought
You may be held hostage by a lie that feels normal.
It may be a lie about God, yourself, truth, suffering, freedom, identity, love, or obedience. It may be something you learned from culture, absorbed through pain, inherited from poor teaching, or protected because it gives you a sense of control.
But Christ does not leave His people in captivity.
He exposes what enslaves us. He confronts what deceives us. He tears down strongholds by His truth. He renews the mind and teaches us to walk in freedom.
If truth does not govern your thinking, something else already does.
So bring the thought to Christ. Bring the assumption to Scripture. Bring the lie into the light.
The truth will not flatter your captivity. It will set you free.